Today, we buried my uncle (my mom's only brother). He was 84 years old.
I haven't spoken any about his death. I've been really struggling with all the stuff associated with the death of a loved on...memories, what to say, and stuff like that.
He died this past Wednesday, which was also Lady Colonel's birthday. Thursday would have been his 60th wedding anniversary. Friday was his wife's birthday (my aunt).
Today was a relief. It was very comforting to see the legacy he left in his children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. A legacy I hadn't really thought about while he was alive.
My uncle was the father of seven children. Two girls (the first and last) with five boys in the middle. The boys were all Eagle scouts. When the fifth one earned Eagle in the late sixties, the family was one of only 19 families that had that many Eagles.
Each of the seven graduated college...two doctors, two engineers, a teacher, an architect, and a forestry major. All were successful in their careers.
My uncle's desire for seeing other's learn passed on to even the grandchildren's generation. He made sure their education was paid. As either generation wished to extend their education, he made sure of that as well. Master's, Phd, pilot's license, he encouraged it all verbally and with his wallet.
The most touching point in the eulogies came from my cousin. He spoke of working in the family business on Saturday's with his dad. Even at the age of eight, he was sweeping factory floors and cleaning up the offices. Mid-morning, before they left their half-day at noon, dad (my uncle) would remind him to check with each of the factory workers to see if they needed a soft drink. A simple thing that spoke volumes of the type of man he was.
Rather fitting that he was buried on Memorial Day. One part of his life he almost never spoke of, even to his kids, was the years 1942 and after that he served in the Navy's Pacific Fleet. To him, it was just part of life. One of those things you just did because it was right. Period.
We all will miss him.
-Colonel Steve
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